I recently came to know that I am a hideous wreck. Sometimes, I am a nice guy. Too nice for my own good. And there were situations where I have been an a-hole. The thing is that I have regretted being both.
Being too nice and the opposite are two extremes of a pendulum. I believe that any person who touches both ends of the spectrum has to come to balance at the centre, having had experiences on either sides.
And i have come to this conclusion, that it helps to be slightly on the nice end of the spectrum. Its good to be a sweetheart at-least, until the sweet gets eroded from the heart.
So all you guys and gals out there. Be nice to each other fellow. Be nice to trees, plants, flowers and dogs. Add more to your list everyday. It helps.